thanks it had work, these two widget i inspected it and came up with these two codes is it right because it had not work for me see attachment and link
here is the codes
.elementor-1781 .elementor-element.elementor-element-a7dc2fb > .elementor-background-overlay {
outline: 10px solid #ec1010;
outline-offset: -20px;
}
.elementor-2434 .elementor-element.elementor-element-1882c69 > .elementor-background-overlay {
outline: 10px solid #ec1010;
outline-offset: -20px;
}
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