Well, I found a work around. I set my main menu to also be the side menu and that works just fine. I like BuddyPress but it doesn’t work well on a paid membership site because you can’t lock it down 100% from expired and lasped members without adding custom coding. (We used the Paid Membership Pro plugin) PeepSo is based purely on pages/posts and is much easier to lock down 100% from expired and lasped members. It doesn’t have a lot of partner plugins yet like BuddyPress, but give it time. So, using the Side Menu has solved my problem. I’m glad I thought of it.